Friday, December 6, 2013

It seems we have a new connection who got the connection right.


Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Specific or general

Psychopaths by there very nature lack cognitive ability particularly in executive functioning which involves impulse control and interpreting your own and others emotions within the construct of the conscience..

Since a conscience is missing the relative possible outcomes on interaction with any psychopath are extremely limited.. so the actions of  various psychopath vary very little from one another and are predictable.. bazaar Yes but common to all of them...


My insight is based on specific cases and interaction with specific psychopaths.

further reading :

 Empathic dysfunction in psychopathic
individuals

Handbook of Psychopathy - Page 335 - Google Books Result



Sunday, July 14, 2013

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Thursday, May 31, 2012

scale of justice: Quotes befitting to Pyschopath

scale of justice: Quotes befitting to Pyschopath: “ A  lie  which is  half  a  truth  is ever the blackest of  lies . ” Alfred, Lord Tennyson The P builds 'space' for depravity on half ...

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Quotes befitting to Pyschopath

lie which is half a truth is ever the blackest of lies.
Alfred, Lord Tennyson

The P builds 'space' for depravity on half truths:-

One particular P's second wife thought she had brain cancer. A simple test by the Doctor confirmed she did not.... this 'thought' led to the spinning of multiple lies which enabled the P: "taking extended periods of leave to be at her bedside"...  His wife thought he was at work, his co-workers thought he was at her bedside...

So a P may have a law degree but would add an MBA and an honourary degree from Tokyo just because they can!...

a P that has maybe traveled to 3 places in the world would quite flippantly say that its 50 and offer to prove it... naive us not to insist on the proof and the P knows how to make any inquiry some moral attack on his character...

a P that has lived a life of depravity and deceit... would have no secrets or vices...a simple man looking for someone to love...




Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Things are a changing??


The Psychopath’s Poison Containers

image by Christian Coigny
As everyone who has been involved with a psychopath knows, building a romantic relationship with such a pathological person is like building a house on a foundation of quicksand. Everything shifts and sinks in a relatively short period of time, usually within a year.  Seemingly caring, and often flattering, attention turns into jealousy, domination and control. Enjoying time together becomes isolation from others.
Romantic gifts are replaced with requests, then with demands. Apparent selflessness and other-regarding gestures turn into the most brutal selfishness one can possibly imagine. Confidential exchanges and mutual honesty turn out to be filled with lies about everything: the past, the present as well as the hollow promises for the future. The niceness that initially seemed to be a part of the seducer’s character is exposed as strategic and manipulative, conditional upon acts ofsubmission to his will. Tenderness diminishes and is eventually displaced by a perversion that hints at an underlying, and menacing,sadism.
Mutuality, equality and respect—everything you thought the relationship was founded upon—becomes replaced with hierarchies and double standards in his favor. You can bet that if you’re involved with a psychopath, particularly if he’s also a sex addict, the fidelity he expects of you is not what he’s willing to offer you or any other person. Fidelity becomes nothing more than a one-way street, as he secretly prowls around for innumerable other sexual conquests. If you accept an open relationship, he will treat you as a sex toy or a prostitute whom he pimps to others in a humiliating fashion that reveals his underlying contempt. As the relationship with the psychopath unfolds, Dr. Jekyll morphs into Mr. Hyde.
Because psychopaths need to constantly lure new partners in order to escape boredom as well as to feel excitement and a sense of power over others, they are always in the idealization phase of relationships with several people at the same time. Those are the targets whom they momentarily woe, flatter, collude with, plot against others with andappear to love. Appear is the key word here, since psychopaths can’t love anyone. They simulate love in order to manipulate others, to intoxicate them even, with the potent mixture of flattery, complicity and lies.
Because psychopaths are filled with contempt for human beings, they are also at the same time in the devalue and discard phases with several individuals at the same time. Those are the people they conspire against, criticize, engage in smear campaigns to ruin their reputations, stalk, and sometimes physically threaten or attack. My article on Drew Peterson illustrates this cycle. Each time Drew Peterson was luring a new mistress, he was at the same time treating his current wife as apoison container, upon which to heap blame, insults, threats, slander, and abuse. Then once the new mistress became his current wife, he was seeking new mistresses and treating the wife–or the former mistress–as a poison container for his venom and abuse. As we now know, for him this cycle culminated in murder several times.
Because for psychopaths the image of niceness, caring, true love is always fake–a mask of sanity–they absolutely need to channel their underlying anger and contempt, which are their real, core emotions, upon the targets they have tired of, already used, or who are waking up and starting to realize the horrible individuals they’re involved with. Mr. Jekyll and Dr. Hyde are different facets of the same psychopath: Mr. Jekyll is only a false image used to lure and manipulate targets in the honeymoon phase, and the real psychopath is Mr. Hyde.  ED Kapp
Mr. Hyde may be temporarily hiding from casual acquaintances, colleagues, new targets or old allies, but he will always reveal himself in how he treats those he’s already used up and tired of: his poison containers, meaning all the targets that are no longer in the idealization phaseSuch poison containers are absolutely necessary for a psychopath who, in reality, can’t stand his own mask of sanity and the effort it takes to fake niceness, to simulate love, or to do things for others in order to get what he wants. 
Claudia Moscovici, psychopathyawareness

There is always a clue when behavior begins to change... Travel in particular was a key lie to hide a particular P's depravity.... Best do some discreet checking!

Monday, March 19, 2012

Don’t Give the Psychopath too Much Importance

Lurking in the Shadows
As absolute narcissists, all psychopaths think they’re extremely importantTo them, the universe revolves around them and their needs. Everyone around them is either a target they will try to use to fulfill those needs or an obstacle to be eliminated in the pursuit of what they desire. For this reason, psychopaths surround themselves with individuals they can manipulate and brainwash, who idolize them. This not only gives them tools to machinate against others, but also supports the narcissistic bubble, sustaining their false sense of importance.
Imagine that you were raised by such a psychopath in a place where you weren’t allowed out of your house, you weren’t allowed to have friends, exchange opinions, learn, interact with others. Then the tyrant who raised you would assume the utmost importance, no matter how pathetic and insignificant he was in any objective sense. The psychology of cult followers and of those imprisoned by a psychopath has some similarities, particularly in the importance the psychopath assumes in their lives.
For cult followers or anyone who worships a psychopath, this importance seems to be a positive force: they have someone they consider superior to others, who makes them feel “special” and “superior” as well, by association. For those held prisoner by a psychopath, this importance is magnified by fear. In both cases, however, it is exaggerated and out of touch with reality: it is carefully created by the psychopath through brainwashing, intimidation tacticsand isolation. For a very interesting and vivid account of how this happens, please see Jaycee Dugard’s account of her imprisonment by apathological couple:
When their targets no longer idolize them or fulfill their demands, psychopaths often retaliateThey can’t tolerate when anyone bursts the artificial bubble of their complete and utter narcissism.  Psychopaths are bullies. They often resort to intimidation tactics, such as stalking and cyberstalking, smear campaigns and various other machinations. Some former victims feel genuinely terrorized by them and live in a state of fear or even paranoia. They give them a power that they don’t deserve. This is not to say that you shouldn’t take the psychopath’s stalking seriously. Record every incident; report it to the authorities; take actions to protect yourself and your loved ones.However, don’t live in the shadow of the psychopath’s inflated ego or in fear of him. My friend and fellow writer, Sarah Strudwick, recently wrote an excellent article about this. She too has been cyberstalked by her psychopathic ex, but learned how to work through–and move beyond–the trauma, the anger and the fears that this experience has caused.
I recall moments during my childhood when I’d go to bed and  my toys would create scary, large and looming shadows on the wall. The toys that seemed so benign during the day sometimes became frightening during the night. In a way, that’s what psychopaths attempt to do to victims who reject them; to those who do not sustain their distorted, inflated egos. They  project scary, larger-than-life shadows through various tactics intended to intimidate and menace. Take their actions seriously, but not the psychopaths.
Psychopaths are trivial human beings. They don’t have any real human relationships and they don’t accomplish any constructive goals, except as a false mask. When you see the psychopath for what he is–a pathetic, insignificant human being–you cut him down to size. Don’t give the psychopath too much importance because, in reality, he has none.
Claudia Moscovici, psychopathyawareness